不要担忧别人对你的看法
发布日期:2018-04-12 15:08

Worried about what others may be saying about you? In this musing, Sadhguru says, let them talk, and instead focus on what you want to do.

担忧他人如何评论你?在这一节分享里,萨古鲁说到 ,让别人说去吧,而你只需要专注于你想要做的。

 

Question: Namaskaram, Sadhguru. I tend to take what other people think about me too seriously. How to deal with that?

问:你好,萨古鲁。我有一种趋向是,总是太在意别人如何看待我。该怎么解决这个问题呢?

 

Sadhguru: First of all, do you really know what is happening behind your back? Or do you only imagine what could be happening? Stop imagining. If someone is thinking something about you, it is their problem, not yours. Their thoughts are their problem. Let them think whatever they want.

萨古鲁:首先,你真的知晓在你背后正在发生着什么吗?又或者你只是在想象?停止想象吧。如果有人脑子里正想着你,那是他们的问题,不是你的问题。他们的念头是他们的问题,让他们愿意想什么就想什么吧。

 

If you are worried about what someone is going to think about you, you will not do anything in life.

如果你担忧别人会怎么看待你,你无法在生命中做任何事。

 

Do you think you are that interesting that everyone is thinking about you all the time? And if no one is thinking about you, that is utter freedom. Why are you thinking through what they maybe thinking? It is not necessary. Just focus on what you want to do. Let others think whatever they want. Maybe they have nothing better to think about, so they are thinking about you. It is largely in your imagination that someone is always thinking about you.

你真的认为自己有趣到可以让每个人脑子里都一直想着你吗?如果没人想着你,那才是彻底的自由。你为什么要揣度他们可能在想什么?没有这个必要。你只需专注在你想要做的事情上。尽管让他们去想好了。也许他们找不到更好的事情来想了,所以他们总是想着你。但如果你觉得别人总是在想着你,很大程度上,那只是你的想象而已。 

 

Most people are busy with their own problems. They are not thinking about you, and that is fine. It does not matter if someone is thinking about us. Do not worry about other people. You cannot fix what they are thinking. So, why bother about it?

大多数人都忙着想他们自己的问题。他们其实并没在想着你,这很好。别人是否在想着你,这没什么关系。不必担忧他人的想法。你无法修正他们脑子里的想法。所以,何必自取其扰?

 

Leave their psychological problems to them. Do not try to solve them. They can think whatever nonsense they want. Why should it affect who you are? If you think you are okay, it is fine. If others think you are not, it is their problem.

把他人的心理问题留给他们自己。不要试图解决它们。他们想怎么想都可以。为什么这会影响到你的内在本质?你认为自己没有问题,这就可以了;如果别人认为你有问题,那是他们的问题。

 

If you are worried about what someone is going to think about you, you will not do anything in life. You can never get everyone’s approval to do what you want to do. So, do not worry about that. Just focus on what you want to do.

如果你担忧别人会怎么看待你,你无法在生命中做任何事。你所想要做的永远不会得到所有人的认同。所以,不要担忧,只要专注在你想要做的事情上就好。

 

Love&Grace,

Sadhguru

爱与恩典

萨古鲁

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