伴侣与瑜伽练习——两者冲突吗?
发布日期:2018-08-16 20:51
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For a spiritual seeker, if a spouse is not supportive of one’s sadhana, then conflict seems inevitable. Sadhguru explains that if one makes his or her spiritual process profitable for the spouse, then they will naturally be supportive.

对于一个灵性追寻者,如果伴侣不支持他的瑜伽练习,那么冲突似乎是不可避免的。萨古鲁解释到,如果一个人能使他/她的灵性过程对其伴侣也有益,那么他们自然会支持你。

 

Question: What should one do when the spouse is not supportive of you going to the yoga programs, and how to make the spouse see the value in this?

问:如果你的伴侣不支持你参加瑜伽课程,你该怎么办? 如何让伴侣看到这其中的价值?

 

Sadhguru: If he has to be supportive to your spiritual process, you must make your spiritual process very profitable for him. He must see that, with spirituality, you have become so exuberant, so joyful, so wonderful. Then he will say, “Meditate, come on! Have you done your meditation today?” But if your idea of spirituality is to tell your family, “From today, I am not going to cook, I will only serve you groundnuts. They have told me in Isha that soaked groundnut has everything.” This is not going to work.

萨古鲁:如果他得支持你的灵性追求,你必须让他从中受益。他必须能看到你随着灵性练习而变得如此溢满活力,如此喜悦,如此美好。然后他会说:“快去冥想!你今天做冥想了吗?”但是,如果你把你的灵性想法告诉家人:“从今天开始,我不做饭,我只给你们花生吃。在Isha他们告诉我,浸泡过的花生具有所有我们所需的营养。”这是行不通的。

 

If you make your spirituality profitable for your partner, then he will ask you every day, “Have you done your morning kriya?” This must be your sadhana. You must see that your spirituality works for him, that you have become a much more wonderful person than he had ever seen. Then he will make sure you are doing your morning kriya, producing results for the family.

如果你能让你的灵性修习也使伴侣受益,那么他就会每天问你,“你做完早上的克里亚了吗?”你的灵性练习必须是这样的——你必须确保你的灵性修习也有益于他,你变得比他认识你以来的任何时候都美好得多。然后他就会确保你坚持每天的瑜伽,给家人也带来好处。

 

But there are certain families where, if someone sits for 15 minutes of meditation, they will come and shake them, “Why are you closing your eyes?” If you have gotten into that kind of a situation, where they protest about anything new, where they are simply insecure about every little thing, then I do not think you have a family. Sorry, I am very brutal but let’s face it. Family means two people or four people are working towards each other’s wellbeing. They are concerned about each other’s wellbeing. If there is no such concern, you really do not have a family. It is time to look at it.

但是在有些家庭中,如果你静坐15分钟,家人就会过来摇你,“你为什么闭着眼睛?”如果你遇到这种情况——家人对任何新事物都会反对,他们对每一件小事都缺乏安全感,那么我认为这不是一个家庭。对不起,我这么说很残忍,但我们需要面对现实。家庭意味着两个人或四个人一起为彼此的幸福而努力。他们关心彼此的幸福。如果没有这样的关心,就不是家庭。是时候正视它了。

 

Love&Grace,

Sadhguru

爱与恩典

萨古鲁

 

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