青年与真理丨如何无视他人对自己的看法
发布日期:2018-08-29 21:08
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Mithali Raj: Namaskaram, this is Mithali Raj. Sadhguru ji, I want to know the truth about where and how can we acquire strength to ignore opinions popping aggainst us everyday?

Mithali Raj: 你好,我是Mithali Raj。萨古鲁,我想知道如何才能变得强大,强大到可以忽视每天冒出来的各种反对我们的意见?

 

Sadhguru: Namaskaram, Mithali, I hear that you are a great hitter of the ball, just keep hitting the ball and everybody’s opinion will change, hahahaha, people have their opinions about everything, but why should it matter to you or anybody, because other people’s opinions will matter to us only when we are not very clear about what we are doing, so instead of trying to battle with other people's opinion, it's best that we strive to create clarity of what we are doing, and why we are doing what we are doing.

萨古鲁:你好,Mithali,听说你打球很厉害,你只要坚持好好打球,每个人的意见就会改变,哈哈哈。人们对什么事都有自己的意见,但那对你、对任何人,又有什么关系呢?因为,只有当我们不清楚自己在干什么时,别人的观点才会重要。所以与其费力和别人的观点抗争,不如先努力弄清楚自己在做什么,以及为什么这么做。

 

If this clarity arises within us, other people’s opinion will not matter。But will people not have opinions about us? They will have, it is their right to have their opinions, it is like “a Kannada Poem by Akka Mahadevi”. What this means is, you built a house in the mountains and in the jungle, now you are afraid of the animals, you shouldn't have been there. Now you built a home in the market place, and you are afraid of the noises of the market place, that's not the right place for you to be. 

如果我们内在有了这种清晰,其他人的意见就不重要了。但是,是不是别人就不会对我们有意见了呢?他们还是会有的,这是他们的权利。这就像Mahadevi的一首Kannada诗里所写的。它的意思是你在山上在丛林里建了房子,却害怕那里的动物,那你本不应该在那儿。现在你在市场里安了家,却害怕市场的嘈杂声,那儿就不适合你呆。

 

Now, you are living in the society, and you are afraid of what other people say, no, this is part of social life, somebody will always say something. Well today it is magnified because of social media, but forever people have been having opinions, at one time you had to battle with just two or three or five people’s opinions, today you have to battle with five million people’s opinions. Because they are all out there, expressing themselves, it’s perfectly fine, they can say what they want, but the most important thing is to bring absolute sense of clarity into our lives as to what we are doing and why we are doing what we are doing. If this is clear to us, opinions will fly, and opinions will change, you just hit the ball well, you will see everybody’s opinions will change, hahahaha.

现在,你生活在社会中,却担心别人的评论,不行的,这是社会生活的一部分,人们总会有话可说。好吧,如今因为社交媒体它被放大了,但是自古以来一直如此,那时候你要对抗三五个人的意见,现在你得对抗五百万人的意见,因为每个人都出来表达自己,他们可以说自己想说的,完全没问题。但是最重要的是——对于我们正在做什么,以及为什么这么做,有绝对的清晰感。如果这对我们来说很清楚(那就没问题)。观点还是会满天飞,一会儿东一会儿西,你就只要好好击球,你会看到人们的看法会改变,哈哈哈。

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